Strict Women Still Get Harassed — Problem Isn’t Women’s Boundaries. It’s Men Who Ignore Them

SIBY JEYYA

ONE SENTENCE, A THOUSAND STORIES


A single remark was enough to crack open an old wound. When Chiranjeevi suggested that the casting couch “does not exist if women remain strict and professional,” it ignited a fierce debate across the film industry. Supporters read it as advice. Critics heard erasure. Because to many women, the problem isn’t attitude—it’s power.


Stepping into the storm was Chinmayi Sripada, who has spoken openly for years about sexual misconduct in cinema. Her response was firm, detailed, and unambiguous: the casting couch is real—and it thrives on imbalance.





1. The Statement That Sparked It All
Chiranjeevi’s comment was seen by some as a call for professionalism. By others, it felt like a dismissal of lived experiences—placing the burden of prevention on women rather than on systems and perpetrators.


2. Chinmayi’s Core Rebuttal
Casting couch, she said, isn’t an exaggeration or an exception. It’s an entrenched practice that has grown worse over time, especially as gatekeeping power concentrates in fewer hands.


3. Respect Then, Reality Now
Chinmayi acknowledged that many senior artists from Chiranjeevi’s generation may have upheld dignified norms. But she drew a sharp line between past environments and today’s reality—where newcomers data-face steeper hierarchies and fewer safeguards.


4. Power Is the Problem
The issue isn’t personal conduct alone; it’s structural. New entrants, women without backing, and freelancers are especially vulnerable when opportunity is controlled by those who expect compliance.


5. When women Are Told Not to Speak
Chinmayi questioned why some senior women criticize the Me Too movement. Discouraging disclosure, she argued, protects silence—not safety.


6. The language of Coercion
Industry jargon, she noted, often carries coded meanings. “Professional commitment” can become a pressure tactic, masking coercion as expectation.


7. Stories That Should Terrify Us
She spoke of cases she is aware of where women locked themselves in rooms to escape assault attempts; of explicit messages, inappropriate behavior, and demands for sexual favors tied to roles—experiences shared quietly because speaking up carries consequences.


8. Her Own Line in the Sand
Reiterating her personal account, chinmayi said she was harassed by a senior composer even with her mother present—underscoring that proximity, respect, or mentorship do not guarantee safety. The incident, she emphadata-sized, was not consensual.


9. The Dangerous Belief
At the root lies a mindset she called out plainly: that giving work entitles men to sexual access. It’s a belief that corrodes workplaces and normalizes abuse.




THE BIGGER PICTURE


This isn’t about one quote versus one response. It’s about whether an industry confronts systems or hides behind simplifications. Professionalism doesn’t neutralize coercion. Silence doesn’t equal consent. And advice doesn’t replace accountability.




THE BOTTOM LINE


When power is uneven, rules written for the powerless won’t protect them.
Casting couch survives where careers depend on favors, not fairness.
Listening—without qualifying, minimizing, or redirecting blame—is the first step.


The debate won’t end with statements.
It will end when structures change, safeguards work, and speaking up stops being a risk.

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