Aarthi Ravi opens on family challenges..!?
For many months, I have been carrying the responsibility of those children on my shoulders alone. My hands are wiping away the tears that those children shed without anyone knowing. Today, as he has formed a new relationship with the newly sprouted ones, the old relationship now looks like a brick wall to his eyes. His promise to give love and care to my children has also flown away. But today, they still portray me as a money-grubber. If that were true, I would have selfishly taken care of my safety at some point, instead of being in this situation where I have lost everything. But I am in this situation today because I decided that it is better to live with love than to live by calculation. Even today, I do not regret that love. But I cannot bear to see it interpreted as weak. Today, my children are 10 and 14 years old, respectively. Economic security and stability are very important to them. They may not have the maturity to understand the legal issues that are going on today, but they definitely know the pain of abandonment. Unanswered phone calls, rejected meetings, false promises of peace, all these are wounds in our hearts.
A father is not only a relationship, but also a high responsibility. Today, I am not speaking as a wife or a woman who is bearing the blame. I am only raising my voice as a mother who wants to protect the welfare of her children. If I fail to do this, I will also be abandoning them. Today, you can elevate your status, you can change your name, but you cannot change the truth. A father is not only a relationship, but also a high responsibility. Today, the physical and mental health of my children has been affected by the people who have come across our lives. The tears they shed are echoing everywhere. You can avoid my words, but you must listen to that echo.
For those who are watching us and identifying as our well-wishers, my instagram ID is still under the name Aarthi. It will remain in that name until the law decides. Dear journalists, please do not identify me as his ex-wife. Let us maintain peace until the law takes that decision. Even now, I am not speaking for revenge or for excitement, I am fighting for the future welfare of my children. Even today, I am hiding my tears, cries, and bitter experiences for those two sons who call you father, aarthi has posted.